Communication Between a Guardian ad Litem in Incompetency and Guardianship Proceedings and Respondent’s Next of Kin
Published for On the Civil Side on April 23, 2026.
Meet Mike. Following a recent stroke, Mike is allegedly no longer able to make and communicate important decisions about himself, his family, or his property. Mike’s wife has filed a petition pursuant to Chapter 35A of the North Carolina General Statutes (Chapter 35A) seeking to have Mike adjudicated incompetent and to have herself appointed as Mike’s guardian. In addition to his wife, Mike’s family members include Mike’s father, sister, and estranged son. Mike also has a best friend who lives next door.
Chapter 35A requires that a petitioner identify in the petition the respondent’s next of kin and others known to have an interest in the proceeding (G.S. 35A-1106(5)) and, within five days of filing the petition, to mail, by first-class mail, next of kin alleged in the petition copies of the notice of rights, the petition, and the initial notice of hearing (G.S. 35A-1109(a)). This post addresses a set of questions that I regularly receive about next of kin and a guardian ad litem attorney (GAL) appointed to represent a respondent pursuant to G.S. 35A-1107. Under what circumstances may a GAL communicate with the respondent’s next of kin, and what can they discuss? What should a GAL consider when deciding whether to communicate with next of kin? And how may information a GAL learns from next of kin be used at trial?
Who is a respondent’s next of kin?
Chapter 35A does not define the term next of kin. But see Black’s Law Dictionary (12th ed. 2024) (defining next of kin as the group of people “most closely related to a decedent by blood or affinity” and anyone who would be entitled to inherit property from an intestate decedent, also referred to as a “nearest relative”). The term next of kin likely includes a respondent’s children, siblings, parents, and spouse, if any. For Mike, who we met in the introduction to this post, his identified family members are next of kin, including Mike’s son, despite their estrangement. Mike’s best friend would not seem to be included, even though the two are close. (Note that the clerk has the authority to require that notice of the hearing also be mailed, using first class mail, to other persons designated by the clerk. G.S. 35A-1109(a). A GAL appointed to Mike may determine that Mike’s friend is an important support for him, and that he would benefit from having his friend present at the hearing. Or perhaps the friend has relevant information about the central issues of the case. Or the GAL may determine that it would be in Mike’s best interest for Mike’s friend to serve as guardian. If so, the GAL may file a motion with the clerk requesting the clerk enter an order designating Mike’s friend be mailed the notice of hearing.) For a review of how the term next of kin has been interpreted in other contexts, see Ann M. Anderson and Joan G. Brannon, Incompetency and Guardianship, ch. 1, Incompetency Determinations at 1.5 – 1.6, North Carolina Clerk of Superior Court Manual Series, UNC School of Government (Updated August 31, 2011).The GAL’s role and the Rules of Evidence in an incompetency proceeding
The answers to the questions about GALs and next of kin raised in the introduction to this post depend on the type of proceeding (incompetency or guardianship) and the duties of the GAL. A GAL is appointed to a respondent to fill two roles. First, a GAL is the attorney for the respondent. G.S. 35A-1107(c). As the respondent’s attorney, the GAL’s duties include:- personally visiting the respondent as soon as possible;
- making every reasonable effort to determine the respondent’s wishes regarding both incompetency and any proposed guardianship;
- explaining the notice of rights provided to the respondent under G.S. 35A-1117; and
- presenting to the clerk the respondent’s express wishes at all relevant stages of the proceedings.
